Sex with small penis: 5 tips to make small penis, feel big

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Hi this is Claire from lubeforsex.com and today we have prepared quite a special topic for you guys.

Sex with small penis; If you are searching for information about improving your sex life, even if your penis might not be the biggest, you’ve come to the right place.

By the way, we’ve recently covered the “vice-versa topic” about big penis problems (yeah, bigger isn’t always better). So go ahead and take a look, if you are interested in finding out how to have enjoyable sex with a penis that might be too large.

But here we have a completely different topic – How to have good and satisfying sex with a small penis and bring a girl to an intense orgasm? Good sex with small penis is an extremely challenging skill to master. And there’s ton of different advice roaming around the internet, of which 80% is useless. Therefore, we prepared simple (yet efficient) tips here for you to follow and make your girl go mad about you.

Even though I am a woman, and know a thing or two about penis size topics myself, I have recently focused on several women forums. Goal? Trying to find out how important is penis size to other women and what men can do to improve their sexual relationship even if they have been “blessed” with a small penis. I have to say that I have gathered quite some interesting findings, which I’ll share within this article titled: “Sex with small penis: 5 tips to make small penis, feel big”

Within this article we would like to answer questions, such as:

  1. Do you really have a small penis? Are you even familiar with an average penis size and what “small” even means?
  2. What size of penis do most women prefer? Too small isn’t perfect, but too big also isn’t!
  3. What can be done about small penis problems?
  4. How to provide amazing orgasms to her when having sex with small penis?
  5. How to increase your ego and gain self-confidence even if your penis is small?
  6. Which are our 5 essential tips to make small penis, feel big?

Our advice and 5 helpful tips for having sex with small penis

Basically, you’ve stumbled across our article due to having a feeling (or possibly a fear) of having a small penis.

Or you’re just curiously searching the web? Perhaps your penis isn’t even small and you just want to learn how to get deeper inside her and how to provide her with the most memorable and the most amazing orgasms?

This is what we’d like to discuss in the continuation of this paper. Everything about how to properly satisfy a woman, even if your penis is smaller sized.

Is your penis really small (statistics overview)?

You know, 85% of men who suffer from small penis syndrome, don’t even have a small penis in reality. Perhaps you fit in that category?

We have prepared a table which shows what a small penis is, based on the statistics. The table applies to grown adult men.

This data is based on the official information gathered from medicalnewstoday.com [1, 2] and healthline.com [1]. It applies to a fully erect penis. With the meridian (an absolute average) being 5.16 inch (ca. 13.12 cm).

So if you are one millimetre above 5.16″, you are above the average (regardless of what some silly chick might have said to you, after you two went part).

How important is penis size (to women)?

It’s not about the size, it’s about being able to sexually satisfy her. I am a woman and my preference is a penis of about 15 cm – I have been with guys who were bigger and smaller. However, smaller didn’t feel that good, while bigger was just painful. Even 16cm was too much to handle for me.

But I have to emphasize on the matter that it’s not about the size – it has a lot to do with how a woman is feeling and the preferences of an individual woman.

Some women like big penises and won’t settle for anything below 18 cm. I had a female friend who texted a guy with 17 cm and broke up with him, telling him that he “was too small for her”. Of course, the poor guy got his ego totally crushed and started worrying about his size, even though he was well above average!

woman not satisfied by his penis size

While there are other women who simply enjoy smaller sized penises. Some women claim they like a penis to be around 13 cm and no more.

I have no idea why things are this way, but I guess all women are specific – all women have different depth and different position of the cervix. All women have different physical properties of vagina, and all women have different preferences and different definitions of what is pleasurable for them.

However, there are signs you can look for, which will tell you if a woman is satisfied by your penis size:

  • Does she moan during sex?
  • Does she have an orgasm while you two have sex?
  • Does she have a dildo hidden somewhere or masturbates on her own?
  • Did she ever expressed a wish for a threesome with a male friend?
  • Are you the one initiating sex or is she the one who initiates sex?

Some of these questions can confirm that she is completely satisfied by you. While other may cause some concern.

The worst imaginable signals for a man, (which are alarming) would be the situation where:

  • you (a man) are always the one who initiates intimate moments;
  • she doesn’t moan or have an orgasm during sex;
  • you are aware that she fantasizes about other men;
  • she’s secretly using toys and other stuff to properly satisfy herself.

Regardless of your size, that means she’s probably not enjoying you. It may be due to your penis size or it may be something else. However, you have a problem.

Do women talk about penis size?

Of course, we do.

We will almost never tell it to your face. But when meeting with another girlfriend we trust, for a cup of coffee or a drink, we will almost always discuss guys, and maybe not be completely direct, but we are going to mention who he was, how he was and also hint about his size.

women laughing at small penis

However, the information we share may not always be accurate.

I’ve been with guys… And sometimes I would go around saying to my best friends “wow, that guy was huge”, etc. And I also might have said a bad thing about the guys I thought were small.

The funny thing is, I get friends with another girl and she tells me about the same guy, whom I thought of as small, that how huge he felt.

And the other way around, I heard about one of the huge guys, how he was nothing special.

If you ask me, I think 90% of girls have no clue about penis size. They go around saying huge guys are small, and small guys are huge etc. Women suck at estimating the size of a penis.

But regardless how bad we are at properly defining guys size, we are going to talk about it with our best girlfriends; and we are going to discuss it just the way that we remember it.

Can you grow your penis (penis enlargement methods)

There are two important things to know about enlargement products and methods that are circling around the web:

  • most of them (almost all) are fake and don’t work;
  • some might even be dangerous and cause permanent damage to your penis.

Forget about magical patches and pills, they are fake and do nothing. They usually contain some stimulant to make you a bit horny and that’s it. It’s like buying a really bad Viagra.

After tons of research I found 5 techniques that people said might actually work and bring results. Some are also substantiated with scientific data:

1) Surgical operation (obviously)

Almost guaranteed to bring results, but is also costly and very dangerous. At many cases men who go under the knife with the intention of enlarging their penis, end up having problems performing sex later on.

This happens due to cutting the ligament at pubis, which has a function of holding the penis at the correct angle. By cutting the ligament penis drops and looks bigger. However, sex may be problematic.

2) Penis weight lifting (stretching)

It is just what it sounds like. You get some weights, you find the safest way you can to fix those weights on your penis. And you start lifting up and down.

I do not think I have to emphasize on just how dangerous practising such reckless exercises can be. Many people damaged their genitals due to exactly this reason. However, it can work.

3) Male enhancement traction (e.g. Andropenis)

Sex with small penis can get better with Andropenis [link to Amazon] and similar traction devices. These devices are actually not as dangerous as previous methods and have scientifically been proved to work.

A small study of 15 men who warn a traction device for 6 months, has concluded, that their penis have grown by 0.9 inch (2.29 cm).

However, most doctors agree further research is needed. But I guess it could be that “light at the end of the tunnel” for men who want to add those extra centimetre or two, and make sex with small penis better and more enjoyable.

4) Jelqing and penis pumps

Although these are two different techniques, they both work pretty similarly, therefore we have joined them.

If we first take a look at “jelqing” – it is a penis “exercise” with which you are increasing blood flow to your penis. You simply make an “OK sign” with your thumb and index finger, and start making movements all the way from the shaft, to the tip of your penis, driving more blood and extending it at the same time.

While penis pumps work as vacuum. You simply adjust the pump to your penis and start “pumping”. The vacuum extends your penis and doing this on a routine base, may add some length in the long run. It is recommended to use the penis pump just prior to having sex with small penis, because your penis will be a little bit bigger/swollen for a while after using the pump. Here’s a great penis pump you can try [get it from Amazon].

However, both methods are considered dangerous, and can cause permanent issues if something goes wrong.

5) Natural penis enlargement remedy.

Increasing your penis size naturally, is one of the best and least dangerous methods, and that’s what “Penis Enlargement Remedy” is. It may sound like a holistic alternative method, and I do not know if it works, however I did find some positive opinion on Penis Enlargement Remedy.

People are more or less satisfied with the results and many recommendation can be found all over the web. You can find more about it here at Penis Enlargement Remedy official website.

Sex with small penis may get better, with presented methods, but we advise you take extreme precautions if you decide to practice any of the above mentioned penis enlargement methods. All of them are risky and you should consult your doctor prior to actually doing any of these.

Sex with small penis: Which techniques you can use to satisfy women even if your penis is small

Now to be honest with you, most women care less about penis size, than men do.

However, providing her with pleasure, and bringing her to that screaming intense orgasm cannot be done, if you aren’t using correct techniques. Sex with small penis is exceptionally challenging, because if she doesn’t feel you, you just won’t be able to satisfy her.

how to have great sex if your penis is small

We have with this purpose prepared some of the most unique and effective techniques you can use for having great sex with small penis.

Better sex with small penis tip 1 – CONFIDENCE

Confidence is one of the sexiest properties of a man. I am serious! Self-confident men are what makes us women hot, before we even speak first words.

However, it is very important that you don’t overdo it, and appear as a douchebag – This is truly irritating and even repulsive, and will prevent you from creating a desire that is very needed to establish with her.

You know a confident man, based on how he acts. Based on his stance and body language. You know when someone is confident based on his facial expressions. Confident men appear as they always have full control over their actions, and you can tell that they know what they’re doing with their life.

These men have no problem approaching women, and once you talk with them they are not full of ego, but instead appear humble and down to earth.

And if you have a small penis, such behavior is usually hard to realize. But it can be done. Simply train yourself, believe in yourself, and even if from the start this will require some acting and if there should be some fakeness to it, do not fret. Just believe in yourself, believe in what you’re doing and keep the positive attitude with an occasional smile on your face.

When you’re confident, women will get lustful for you. And it is so much easier to satisfy her needs, when she has a desire for you. Ever watched the movie American Beauty featuring Kevin Spacey? And how his character was at first that boring guy with absolutely no confidence, and after he became a total badass? – Yeah, he was taking it a bit far, but he became hot by simply transforming his character mindset.

Be confident and you will make her lust for you.

Amazing sex with small penis tip 2 – FOREPLAY

When you are below average, you should invest more time into foreplay. Kissing, caressing, establishing the perfect mood for the main act.

This is extremely important, because women, we’re not like men – We need to relax, warm up, we need to start feeling those butterflies all over our body… and if you ask me, personally I had some of the best orgasms, simply because the guy knew how to properly warm me up. And it had nothing to do with his size.

Just so you know, women are complicated, and foreplay doesn’t start when you two start making out. It can start at beginning of the day, or possibly even a weak prior to sexual act.

Women love attention and we love to be served! You should be engaged, you should give your woman lots of attention and if you prepare us a nice surprise (possibly clean an apartment, do the dishes, or prepare a romantic dinner), this is what gets us hot.

The moment when you two start making out, more than 75% has already passed. And if you’ve been a jerk, she just wont have that need for you. You have to create that neediness in her brain. And that’s the secret to good sex and powerful orgasm.

Orgasmic sex with small penis tip 3 – USING TONGUE & FINGERS

Using your tongue and fingers is just as important (if not even more important) than using your penis. You can create so many magical moments with some oral action and by being skillful with your fingers.

If the idea of eating her seems distasteful and repulsive to you, you should change that. Make yourself once or two times, force yourself and go down on her. You’ll see that all those moans and watching how she’s in a dream world of pleasures which you are creating for her, is just so worth it.

Learn how to use your tongue and become skillful in oral. This is essential and women who are not experiencing these pleasures, I truly feel for them. Oral orgasms are just too good.

But the best thing that can happen is, when he’s edging you. Not allowing you to reach an orgasm, providing all those pleasures and keeping you right on the edge.

Once you have her completely out of herself, in that heavenly world of pleasures and orgasmic feelings, stick it in and make her have the most intense experience with you. She will love and adore you for this, regardless of your size! You are going to be her own magician – the one and only who can master sexual skills that take her into heaven.

Great sex with small penis tip 4 – POSITIONS

Just as we have talked in our related article about big penis problems, some positions are to be avoided when having a penis that is just too big.

Those same position are perfect for practicing when having a sex with small penis. So let’s take a look which positions are those, that make a woman feel you deeper.

doggy sex position
Doggy style position [source: sexinfo101.com]

Best 5 sex positions to try if your penis is small, are:

  1. Doggy style;
  2. Reverse cowgirl;
  3. Legs-on-shoulders;
  4. The butterfly;
  5. Missionary with bent legs.

And below are the illustrations of each position:

Small penis sex positions (reverse cowgirl)
Reverse cowgirl [source: schoolofsquirt.com]
Small penis sex positions (Legs-on-shoulders)
Legs-on-shoulders [source: sexualpositionsfree.com]
Small penis sex positions (the butterfly)
The butterfly [source: badgirlsbible.com]
Small penis sex positions (Missionary with bent legs)
Missionary WBL [source: schoolofsquirt.com]

Each of the above presented positions, are designed for deep penetration. Therefore, if you do have a small penis, you should try experimenting with these. You will get deeper into her, and the sex will feel just as if your penis was about 1 inch (2.54 cm) longer.

Intense sex with small penis tip 5 – TOYS & PROPS

To improve your sex life when working with a smaller tool yourself, you shouldn’t be afraid (or ashamed) to use additional toys and props.

There are tons of sex toys available on the market, and each of them are designed to provide more pleasure.

Many guys believe that using additional props for satisfying a woman is like admitting that you are unable to satisfy a woman on your own. You shouldn’t view toys like that. It’s the same as thinking that you are incompetent, because you cook in the oven, while you could just as well make fire and cook like in the days of Neanderthals. – Toys are normal, and can make your sexual experience more intense and a lot easier to provide an orgasm to the woman you love.

Use toys when having sex with small penis

Like this magic electric massage finger [link to Amazon] – With which you can create a dream world for her.

So do not hesitate to visit a sex shop and buying an intimate present for her. Let her know that you care about her being sexually satisfied and that your idea was that you two should spice it up a little with additional props.

Conclusions: Having a small penis and being able to satisfy women

We’d like to conclude this article with the thought: “Even if your penis is smaller than the average, you can still have great sex with small penis and provide her with screaming orgasms.”

This can be done by following our tips we shared within this article. If we recap and remind ourselves again, what you can do to improve your sex when having sex with small penis:

  • Be confident about yourself;
  • Focus on foreplay;
  • Make use of your tongue and fingers;
  • Practice positions that are proven to work best for smaller penis size;
  • Do not hesitate to use toys and props.

These were our 5 tips for sex with small penis.

We hope you enjoyed our article, and that our advice will in-fact improve your sexual experience.

We have also shared techniques for enlarging the size of your penis, but as we’ve written in the section about penis enlargement, all those methods can be risky so do consult your doctor before practising any of those.

Thanks for reading our article titled “Sex with small penis: 5 tips to make small penis, feel big” and your welcome to come back for more – we publish new works weekly. The lubeforsex.com team.

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