Threesome: 7 hot things a girl can do during an FMM threesome

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Are you and your hubby thinking about bringing another man into your bed? Is the thought of having sex with 2 men making your wet?

The “FMM” (female, male, male) threesome is not an uncommon thing among sex enthusiasts, however, too many times the reality is that the sexual act of an FMM threesome ends up being completely weird and nothing close to what your initial fantasies were.

That’s why we want to give you a few tips that you can use while getting banged by 2 guys. In this article we present 7 hot things a girl can do during FMM threesome that are surely going to make the experience much sexier and orgasmic.

A woman, getting herself involved in a threesome with 2 men, can either end up having a great sex life and a relationship filled with excitement, or it can completely ruin you and your marriage with the one you love. It depends on the mindset of both partners. And before jumping into the kinky stuff, we should first go over a couple of things.

Below you can find 5 indicators that’ll tell you whether it is safe (or not) for you and your husband to invite another man in between the sheets, without compromising your relationship / marriage.

⬇Indicators that threesome is OK for you

1) MUTUAL DESIRE: Both you and your husband have this same fantasy of bringing another man in your sex life.

2) IT’S JUST ABOUT SEX: You both understand that it’s just about sex and got nothing to do with love.

3) NO JEALOUSY: You are not a jealous person. Neither is your partner.

4) CONFIDENCE: Your husband doesn’t care about the other guys physical features (beauty, muscles, penis size …) and won’t get affected mentally.

5) DOING IT FOR THE THREESOME: You are doing this because the thought of doing an FMM threesome is making you hot, while you still love and appreciate your husband very much.

⬇Indicators that you should avoid FMM

1) DESIRE OF JUST YOU: Having a threesome with another man is mostly a desire of just one of the partners.

2) IT CAN BECOME EMOTIONAL: You know you are emotional and that there’s a chance that you’ll fall in love with the 2nd guy.

3) THERE’S JEALOUSY PRESENT: You two have a history of fights due to jealousy.

4) LACK OF CONFIDENCE: You know that your husband will feel bad about himself if the other guy is a macho stallion who’s packing large down there.

5) DOING IT TO BE WITH THE OTHER GUY: You want to do this, because you’re not satisfied with your husband no longer, and you simply want to be with another man.

If you find yourself in the second column, I suggest you think again about doing a threesome and bringing an extra guy into your bed. However, if you are single, then I guess there’s no problem in doing it.

As I said, this article is focused more at the ideas that a girl can do in bed with 2 guys, that will totally mess them up (we come to that very soon). You don’t want them going around talking that you were dull in bed. I just wanted to point out that a threesome can have a negative impact to your relationship (if you’re in one), when your (or your partner’s) mindset isn’t 100% up for it.

Now let’s stop beating around the bush and let’s take a look at the 7 hot things a girl can do during an FMM threesome that’ll make both guys go crazy over you.

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1) Dress to Impress – Wearing Sexy Lingerie

What you wear is of extreme importance for how hot the event is going to be. Guys love women who dress sexy! You don’t want to come to a threesome event looking casual. You need to look exceptional!

If you they’re jaws drop once you enter the room, then you’ve done a fine job. There’s no question about physical features (you being overweight or anything like that). The only question is are you feeling sexy and confident, and are you wearing lingerie and clothing that express that confidence?

Here you can find great ideas on what to wear to impress guys before indulging in sexual activities. Become a seductive mistress that knows what she wants!

A couple things that you should always consider wearing to a threesome:

  • sexy lace top stockings
  • thongs
  • corset
  • high heels
  • push-up bra
  • and other seductive lingerie that spring to your mind.

Before deciding on your clothing style, try to figure out the theme that both guys like – for example if they’re into leather, wear leather. Perhaps they’re into roleplay … you can bring along your sexy nurse costume, go change to the bathroom while they drink a glass of champagne, and be their nurse for the night.

These are very important things that can make the entire ambient a lot hotter than simply just having a threesome.

2) Never let one guy unattended

Regardless of how much one of them may look interested (or interesting for that matter), the rule of threesome is to never neglect one guy. Even if you’re giving one just a tiny bit more attention, he notice that and the entire thing will be … well, sad for the man who’s not getting enough attention.

It’s another thing if one expresses the desire to just watch. We do have for example “cockold” fetish, in which case the husband likes to watch his wife getting banged by another guy. But this isn’t the case nor the topic here. Here were talking about an FMM where both males are equally interested in sexual act with the woman.

Therefore, regardless of what is happening, make sure you’re into action with both of them. It can be hard sometimes, while you’re getting banged out of your mind, but at least try to use hands (if you’re unable to use mouth) on the other guy.

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3) Talk during sex to both men … a lot

Communication is of high importance. During your FMM threesome you should never stop communicating. Whether it is whispering to one man’s ear, or screaming for more … Basically, everything except silence is fine!

You may think or feel that that’s a bit silly. Well, it’s not, trust me. It is only via good communication that you’ll be able to make this threesome amazing for all parties.

Before talking at all, think about what you want. If you want one to go down on you, whisper that into his ears: “I’d die for you to go down on me!”

Or if you want him to stop fooling around and insert his big fella inside you, tell him to do it: “I really want to feel you inside me right now.”

“Slower, faster, more, yes, yes… Your penis feels so good inside me…” and many more things you can say to make things sexier. Don’t be afraid to talk while having sex. Especially not during an FMM threesome.

4) Take one from behind, while giving oral to the other

This is hot. Really hot. Have you ever fantasized of having one guy doing your from behind, while you’re sucking the other? He may just as well cum due to the excitement of the scene alone.

Make them switch, make them take turns. Don’t be disgusted by tasting your vaginal juices from the guy who’s previously been banging you from behind. Enjoy it!

One thing, if guys are OK with it, is to make one guy do the 69 position using his tongue on your clit, while making the other one f*ck you from behind. You definitely should try this if you have a chance to do it with 2 guys. It is amazing and it can bring to the most powerful orgasm you’ve ever experienced in your life.

5) Use props, lube and toys

There’s nothing hotter than a woman who know what she wants. I remember having this one night stand with a woman who appeared really confident to start with. And when we were in the middle of foreplay she opened her purse and took out two things:

  • a condom,
  • and a lube.

With a naughty smile on her face, she opened the bottle and poured a couple of drops inside the condom. Then she proceeded to tease me by putting the condom onto my penis … with her mouth! The feeling was so amazing and the complete event was one of the most orgasmic thing that happened to me in my entire life.

Just make sure you get the right type of lube for the thing you’ll be using it with (e.g. oil type isn’t compatible with latex condom, silicone type won’t work with silicone toys, …).

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6) Ask one to slide his penis up your ass, while the other does you vaginally

Having two guys with you in bed, you’re bound to find yourself “sandwiched” in between them at one point. There’s a perfect opportunity to try some anal fun. Anal sex is amazing and many guys dream of it.

Let the guy know you want it. When you riding a cowgirl, being on top of one guy, tell the other to take the lube and spread it all over your ass. And then whisper to him: “I want you to gently slide it up my ass.”

Trust me, merely the words may make the guy cum, once you say something like that to him. Slow down riding the other guy, just sit there tight, and wait for the 2nd guy to enter your rear end.

Once he’s in, slowly start riding back again. Doing anal + vaginal simultaneously in a FMM threesome is something both of them are going to remember till the end of their lives.

7) In an FMM threesome one is bound to cum first (it doesn’t mean it’s over)

One of the guys may have more stamina than the other. When you look at porn they usually both cum at the same time, however, that’s not real life. It can just as well happen that one guy will ejaculate after just a few minutes, while the other may need 20+ minutes.

What to do in such case? – Sticking to the rule “it’s not over until we’re all feeling exhausted” is a good principle to go by. Wait and see what the guy who orgasms first is going to do. But try to persuade him to stay in bed. He can still caress you, kiss you, etc. And you can still suck him, and lick his penis. Maybe he’ll be up for another round sooner than you think.

The worst thing you can do, is to laugh at him. Don’t put him in an awkward position and don’t mock him. Many men are able to stay hard and cum multiple times during one sex session. Try to be fascinated by his ability to cum that fast. Enjoy every single drop of his fluids and play with it. Make it appear as if you were rewarded by him ejaculating all over you.

Continue with him and let him know that he’s not finished yet! Make it sexy, make it orgasmic. That’s the whole point of an FMM threesome –> 1 woman and 2 men enjoying sex to its fullest.

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